How to give positive feedback?

I’ve tried it. Can we soak please? Please stop engaging, we’re 3 lvls behind. Can you please play safe?

PLEASE, means jack all in this digital world, and positive feedback is answered with

  • Its just QM
  • Its just a game
  • Lol QQ more / Whiner
  • Feeding / Troling / AFK

I should at least be able to ask someone to stop feeding if they are 0/8 within 10 minutes.

Honestly, if someone knows a way to get through to people with kind words I am all ears. So far the responds have been fairly negative if you criticize obvious things like feeding or incapability to soak.

Not asking for a miracle here. Just advice. So far, 3 games into my weekend and I AM done.

my most success even when me and the other player were in an argument would be to ask questions on “why” they did what they did. i know the guy taking a camp over defending a fort against a fat stack of soak is not worths since the enemy might just get a fort for free while we get a camp. I assume it helps with logical reasoning on why they thought A was more valuable then B.
This helps sometimes but normally after games, never during