wow you should get a job in a cinema because you are projecting so hard right here.
I did not scream at you or yell at you or anything like that.
I’m trying to tell you not to bother people with spam when they are trying to enjoy their game.
as I quite clearly said, that time when someone complimented my mount, I had a wonderful conversation.
I used to have lots of wonderful conversations in this game, but lately people have decided that because people are not interested in their guild, they have the right to go sliding into people’s private messages.
you know what a whisper is, right? it involves a person’s lips right next to your ear. a whisper is intimate. try and learn some boundaries.
if people aren’t responding to your guild through trade chat or forums etc. it’s because they don’t want to join your guild, it’s not because they need you to invade their game time as well as the forums. not being able to build guilds is an endemic issue in WoW. the community in the game is suffering and part of that reason is people become hostile and the reason for that is behaviour like what you have described.
why should i have time for people in the game if all they want from me is to be another number i their guild roster. no thank you, that is disrespectful to me, it is not social, it is invasive and sleazy. take your adverts and put them where they belong. in general, or in trade chat or in forums.
as already established, behaviour like yours is what has resulted in me blocking all communication with other players, because all I seem to get is adverts off people like you who think they are just being nice and polite and friendly, while at the same time are just trying to grow their guild numbers. so any time someone might try and whisper me and ask me for help with a quest, or compliment me on my mog, or whatever, they are greeted by silence. the game becomes less social, and it’s because of you.
not just you, but every person who thinks like you. who thinks it’s nice and friendly and polite to send me a whisper, bypassing badboy, bypassing DND, bypassing general chat. going right up to my ear and whispering “guilda is a nice friendly community looking for more players” for the 100th time… hell, you might as well say “nigerian prince is a nice pleasant guild looking to give you a million pounds”
edit: by the way, yes this is a long post, no I’m not screaming, yes it is a rant, yes I am upset, no Im not out of control, no this is not all aimed at you personally.
edit2 :
fortunately, you are in a guild, so you don’t have to deal with this constantly, all the time.