Hi Elfilda,
Rekindled may be able to offer you what you are seeking. We are a close community that has people (including me) in a similar position to you with kids etc.
Our recruitment post is here:
And from what you have said in your post I genuinely think you will fit very nicely into our little community. We are patient and learn together - member regularly run M+ and we raid twice a week starting on Thursdays and Sundays.
Would love a chat to see if we can help each other! Please drop by the discord in the recruitment post if you are interested!
Cheers!