To start with, I’ve had a pretty bad time with DF in terms of finding a home, as well as settling on a main character. The guilds I have been part of have started off great but eventually showed red flags which discouraged me from wanting to be there, such as cliques and toxicity.
I’ve had a lot of difficulty finding a main to play since BFA if i’m honest, ever since I was forced to step out of a healer role in the guild I was part of at that time. I have done every type of class and spec now, never really focusing on FOTM but more about enjoyment. Right now I am dabbling with a Hunter and experiencing that it’s really hard to get into pug groups for keys. I was initially BM and eventually moved to MM to boost my chances of getting groups, the best I can get is +4s.
Currently I am running around solo, doing what I can to improve. I have tried many guilds, transferred far too many times and played whatever guilds have lacked. Now I just want to focus on myself but with a like minded group, to enjoy content in a non judgmental environment. I don’t care about elitism or who does the most dps on meters, I just want to enjoy the game again. I have been in this game long enough to know what I enjoy and that is my focus. Keys, mog runs and achievements along with a little casual raiding.
Maybe there is others out there who feel the same way and I’d be happy to chat or group up.