I’m at the exact same point. Long story short, I wanna play PvP, Mythic raiding, M+, basically everything.
I figured out that most of the warlock fantasy I was sticking with is basically transmog… everything else got taken away.
In PvP we are no longer the tanky caster, affliction is getting stomped by melees since BFA alpha and there is no sign of fixing that, they just forced destruction on every PvPer.
In M+ the class is still lackluster and not comparable to mage/hunter/moonkin/shadow as other rdps options.
In raid they basically made us a single target specialist in BFA and now, in Shadowlands, our dots are still not doing meaningful damage. Most damage comes from Maleifc Rapture. The ability is not that bad, I just miss the multidot-identity. Multidotting feels more like a requirement for MR to deal full damage, not like actually killing something with deadly, decaying, evil dots.
For transmogs warlock is still the king and no one even comes close, so that is still working for me.
Conclusion: The Warlock class that once inspired and hooked me is gone. I am going to play mage, tired of being forced on weird PvP specs that I do not enjoy at all, tired of being 30% more effective in high M+ keys with my twink than with my main, tired of playing a multidot-class that excels in doing single-target dps.
The feedback about affliction keeps getting ignored. No transparency. No feedback from Blizzards side. No open discussion. No idea where you want the spec to be. No way for me to stick with that weird, thirsty, unfullfilling shadow of a spec that once was called Affliction Warlock and had it’s clear identity.
I’m a Mage now.
Heavy-heartedly.
I don’t want it.
Not even enjoying it.
But still better than sailing an abandoned ship.
Take care guys, at least you look good.