Girls like butterfly and raindbows… Guys like gritty and dark things… Thats just how I see the world…
But i think it is okey for women to like the other… and vice versa… BUT i wouldn’t go out of my way to call people sexist and mysagonistic for saying this.
I think the world should accept that girls and boys can like each others stuff and be into it.
But I wouldn’t try to redefine the whole world view of what is masculine and feminine looking in the same breath.
Not liking “girly” things doesn’t make anyone insecure about it, it simply means they do not like it. Not sure why people always go for the usual nonsense of “fragile masculinity” whenever it comes up when it has nothing to do with it. But hey, if people can’t see eye to eye about something it’s easier to attack and belittle them right? And the cherry on top is you then all pat each other on the back to celebrate how friendly you are…
And that’s what people are pointing out with your stereotypes.
It’s fine that’s what YOU like, but you can’t generalize this by saying butterflies if for girls only and boys only like the gritty stuff.
Cause i know girls/women who are into stuff that makes you look like an angel.
The one we grew up in where if you aren’t manly enough you get called a girl or gay and bullied. Where if you aren’t girly enough you get called a lesbian or freak. I’m so glad you didn’t have to experience not fitting in your little neat box.
This is the last I’ll say on it though, like trying to talk to a brick wall. At least you don’t mean any more… you just can’t understand.