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Girls like butterfly and raindbows… Guys like gritty and dark things… Thats just how I see the world…

But i think it is okey for women to like the other… and vice versa… BUT i wouldn’t go out of my way to call people sexist and mysagonistic for saying this.

I think the world should accept that girls and boys can like each others stuff and be into it.

But I wouldn’t try to redefine the whole world view of what is masculine and feminine looking in the same breath.

Not liking “girly” things doesn’t make anyone insecure about it, it simply means they do not like it. Not sure why people always go for the usual nonsense of “fragile masculinity” whenever it comes up when it has nothing to do with it. But hey, if people can’t see eye to eye about something it’s easier to attack and belittle them right? And the cherry on top is you then all pat each other on the back to celebrate how friendly you are… :roll_eyes:

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Bangs head on desk

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I’m 6’2 220 pounds lean and like butterflies am I a girl now dawg.

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No i get that… Your into that stuff and thats okey? But I wouldn’t call it masculine interests exactly?

Its okey that you like that. I think that guys can be into girl things… and vice versa.

No one cares if you don’t mind it, actively complaining about it makes it cringe.

And that’s what people are pointing out with your stereotypes.
It’s fine that’s what YOU like, but you can’t generalize this by saying butterflies if for girls only and boys only like the gritty stuff.
Cause i know girls/women who are into stuff that makes you look like an angel.

Honestly it’s refreshing to see not everyone has views from the dark ages about women and what is for women and men.

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Cringe is bullying people and throwing around labels and insulting them for a difference of opinion.

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I’ve met people much more masculine collecting butterflies and bugs than I have during my kickboxing journey.

The whole point is that you shouldn’t label things masculine or feminine?

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I can generalize it… and the way i see it. Its guys being into girl stuff… and girls being into dude stuff? Whats wrong with that?

How is that so horribly wrong?

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No you can’t, that’s the whole point.
It’s how YOU perceive things, but that doesn’t make it a universal truth.

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It’s harmful. It makes people feel like freaks because they don’t like what they’re “supposed to”.

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No it doesn’t? What kind of victim mentality is that?

Its okey to like girl stuff if your a dude… Its okey to like dude stuff if your a girl. Thats the sort of mentality we should foster. Its not wrong.

Im a guy and like all of it dark and dangerous and pretty and bright so you have no valued point.

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The one we grew up in where if you aren’t manly enough you get called a girl or gay and bullied. Where if you aren’t girly enough you get called a lesbian or freak. I’m so glad you didn’t have to experience not fitting in your little neat box.

This is the last I’ll say on it though, like trying to talk to a brick wall. At least you don’t mean any more… you just can’t understand.

That is ironic considering it’s people not being able to stop labelling the transmog items.

Me calling a transmog girly vs you calling me a misogynist

I wonder what worse here? :joy:

I see the irony is lost on you.

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I feel the generational divide heavily when I play WoW

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