I want to put a disclaimer first:
My account is from 2007 and I have played every single tier/season since.
I have -never- gotten a penalty until Dragonflight, I never write slurs or alike to randoms (would only write it to close friends where strangers wouldn’t be able to see it). The closest thing to being toxic I ever type, is being a little passive aggressive, but not to the point of breaking any ToS.
I’m a very calm and usually very nice, friendly and in a good mood. I also almost exclusively play with friends, and generally don’t really write in chat anymore, because I’m on discord.
ANYWAY -
In S3 I got a chat ban (this one I will admit might be my own fault. I play on Argent Dawn and was having a degenerate conversation in trade chat, nothing toxic and no slurs, but as degenerate as Argent Dawn trade chat gets)
I have hardly played for a week, except killing Fyrakk and explaining to our tank that I thought he was being unfair when flaming me(Top heals, top dispels, doing seeds and only seeder to survive), explained I had to leave anyway because I promised a friend to do keys.
Basically the only interaction I’ve had through chat that wasn’t “Hi” or “GG ty”
The tank whispered me, calling me a snowflake, I reply “Wow you really hurt my feelings. Anyway…” and then I put him on ignore.
And then I get hit with a 7 day account suspension.
I immediately appeal the suspension, asking for evidence / chatlogs and a detailed description on how my actions justify a 7 day suspension.
6 days pass before I get the bot response “We’ve revised the material and determined that your suspension was legit”
No chatlogs, no proof, no description on what has caused this, and I didn’t even get to reply to the auto-response, no, the ticket was immediately marked as “resolved”. Sadly it caused me to miss out on 2 weeks of loot (due to bad timing and a hospitalization). Luckily I don’t care too much about the loot, I do however care about the treatment from Blizzard.
I have an amazing friend group, we go on a trip every year and one of our friends even invited us to his wedding. I’ve been in this game for so long, and depended on it to be my safe-space where I could make friends that I didn’t need to hang out with all the time irl.
Sadly, this suspension has caused me to have insane anxiety when interacting with the community.
I came back from a hospitalization, looking forward to play with my friends again, but as soon as I came online, the anxiety suddenly hit.
I’m terrified of saying “Hi” or “Thanks for the key” in chat. I’m scared of offering to do void bombs on Sarkareth or ask who wants Pi.
I’m scared of interacting with the community in an MMORPG that I’ve literally grown up in, found love and friendship in for so many years. This was my safe-space, where my autistic brain didn’t have to worry about social rules and norms, as long as I was kind to other people.
Anything you type, no matter how harmless it is, even if it’s merely a “Hello” or “Thanks!” can result in a suspension if you get mass-reported. As a result, I no longer wish to communicate with the community. I’d rather get kicked from a group for not responding, than get a suspension because someone mass-reported my message saying “Hello”.
So well done Blizzard, a game I love and have spent so incredibly many hours in, making friends and memories, now causes me insane anxiety, all because you would rather have bots reviewing reports and appeals, than actual people.
Multiple of my friends also refuse to write in chat anymore, purely out of fear of getting suspended even when doing nothing wrong.
I hope Blizzard will look into their report system, even though I highly doubt it.