edit: The search is finished for the time being.
A bit of advice and information. I was a part of that community until today. Wasnt around for long. I got kicked.
While I generally support the idea of such a community, the handling of it is quite weird.
People got passive agressive messages,saying they should involve themselves more and be more active and participate in m+ night. I do understand that sentiment but,again,the handling was very poor. Yesterday I suggested to run a key with OP,to have something in the vault and just play together. It was declined,saying that the âtoolâ is absolutely not worth it and OP despises it. Fair,to each their own. I said I dont really mind it and sometimes you even find someone good.
I even offered to do the entire discord server with setting it up and stuff,since it was pretty barebones at that point.
Near the end of the night, OP said that hes giving that community about 1 month before quitting and switching to a different game. Just wanna throw that in as well.
This morning I was removed saying that my tendencies do not align with what the community is supposed to be about. Guilds and communities arent suited for me either,since i probably treat them as some sort of twitter alternative(not my words,just quoting)
So folks, if you like the LFG and continue to use it and you still want to join the guild,dont mention it. Seems like its forbidden.
I hope that info helps you a bit deciding if you wanna give this a try. I tried it and was met with a very judgemental and stubborn person.
Best of luck
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Well, I guess this is the battlefield we live in today.
I mean everything I write in the initial post. Just to give you some background â out of 14 interested people along the way, two were willing and able to make and keep a date (that was suggested by them) so far. Itâs a common occurrence today that players join communities or guilds and then do nothing. As I wrote in the initial post - if you want a 20 seat-community to work, there has to be certain level of activity.
I made one post in the community and I mean it: if you join and then do nothing for a week, I would ask you to find something else.
The majority of people considers themselves âchillâ and âsocialâ and âreliableâ while most of them arenât. And when these terms are put to the test in a community that actually means it, egos get bruised. Also every player can use the lfg to their hearts content.
And yes, I think Iâll try for the better part of a month to see if a semblance of a team forms. Iâm open and transparent about this in the community. This process so far has been stressful amongst other things and I donât want this state to be my leisure time for months on end.
Khonon didnât interact with anybody in this community other than me, in a way that I started to feel is creepy. I talked to others and they agreed. Please take this with a pinch of salt since itâs only my perspective but this perspective was and is enough to say I donât want to play with Khonon any more. I suspected him to be unable to deal with rejection and there we have it.
Oh boi 
well I got the screenshots from the ingame community chat and the discord conversation that proves otherwise,but yeahâŚi can live with being a creep if thats how you judge people you LITERALLY NEVER EVEN SPOKEN TO also calling me a creep sounds like I was interested in you in some wayâŚI DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT YOU ARE. talking about community but never even introducing yourself while you asked me a bunch of questions(also visible in screenshots) and yes I interacted with you mostly since all the others arent online or dont talk so who else am I supposed to talk to
And no, you clearly stated that me using the LFG is the reason you removed me. also visible in screenshots. You were unable to deal with the fact that youre stuck in the past and very stubborn. Ive been there as well,acted like that as well. But i took a long break,got some therapy,cleared my mind. Maybe you should do the same
Dude, youâre a creep, please leave me alone.
Heyya Khonon,
It looks you got sucked into some toxicity lately, sorry to hear that.
If you want to talk about a more active and more properly ran community that does raiding regularly and some irregular but almost weekly M+ as well, please add me to Discord: Tex#1991
Heyya Tex,
he didnât get âsucked inâ but thrown out - thatâs movement in the opposite direction. And if it was âtoxicityâ, he canât walk away from by himself for some reason, then me removing him was to his benefit. It most certainly was for my benefit.
I wish you luck for your community but would ask you not to hijack the search of other people. Thank you.