I’m a returning player, been playing on and off since MoP. I usually play Tank (monk) and back when i played the most the dungeon etiquette was that you start when everyone is ready and only the tank pulls so the dungeon is run at their speed (and you know, tank stuff like keeping aggro etc) Now, i am a bit slow navigating because it takes me a go-around to remember the dungeon layout when i return, but i otherwise tank well as far as i know how to.
That being said, without fail every time i come back someone has to say something along the lines of ‘wtf is the tank doing??’. During TW today all 3 dungeons i’ve run so far (literally only 3 since coming back) one of the other players runs ahead and grabs everything and bearly leaves me time to catch up to make sure i have aggro, it’s frustrating but i know i’m slow normally so i keep up and don’t say anything. The last dungeon today though, the healer was doing this, running ahead, pulling everything, literally getting themselves down to half health because i physically couldn’t run fast enough to keep up with them to aggro the mobs and they told me to ‘go back to classic’ because i was so bad at tanking? (and no, no one died or got below like 95% in any of these except that healer)
(unrelated but when classic came out it was the hardcore people doing that, guess it’s the new ‘you’re a casual’ insult?)
Since this happens every time i come back i’ve got to face the fact that i just don’t know how to run dungeons with people anymore, so if anyone can explain to me the new etiquette and how i should be tanking i’d appreciate it, gameplay wise i do fine it’s just there’s something i’m missing i guess when it comes to doing stuff as a group.