I agree, specially on the male model, were proportions in general look realy off and makes it feel like a slimmed down night elf. Male face is indeed to round and their ears to big, but like you said it’s probably to much work at this point as it sounds like a real overhaul.
I think adding a third eye option that is even more narrow would help alot, specially on the males. On the female model the eyes realy pay off, but on the males they still feel somewhat round. This is maybe because of their round features in general.