Samael, my Hordie commrade.
I understand your feeliings completely. Especially the part about keyboard warriors on forums. I assure you I am not one of those seeking validation as you described.
I am genuinely interested in what you have to say about this. How long have you been playing wow? Or MMORPG’s in general?
It is a time sink, like you said and it always has been. I’ve been playing since vanilla days and one of the things I loved about it was sinking my time into an immersive experience, which in a way is true of all video games, books, movies, comics etc. The reason why I spent so many days, weeks, months, years on wow was because the players were such a key part of that immersive experience. I’m not talking about hardcore RP players who have read all the books and can quote… whoever.
Times have changed a lot. Not just in gaming but in society overall. Online gaming and socialising online used to be our thing, the gamers and no one did it better than mmorpgs and no mmorpg did it better than wow. You didn’t mind sinking a minimum of 3 hours a week into chasing an item by having to coordinate with 25 other people because if you didn’t get it that time… you had a reason to come back next week, which was fun!
Your story really makes me sad because I think it’s true for a lot of people in a lot of contexts. Have you ever felt that dating or relationships feels pointless or meaningless because all it took was a swipe left or right? Getting to chat with someone you like feels less rewarding when all you had to do was ‘slide into the DM’s’ instead of having to work and spend the time and effort going somewhere, finding someone and plucking up the courage to go over and talk to charm them?
I’ve thought about it and reflected on a lot of what you are saying. Fundamentally the game and its reward systems haven’t changed that much. What other options does the game have? Go down the route of ‘pay for play’? Meaning…if you don’t have the time but you’ve got the money… here is your God Roll Blade of OP.
I think what we are talking about is why pvp has become a lot more popular than pve. Quick, consistent rewards, bragging rights etc.
On the other end of the spectrum you have RP which has been in decline. Partly, I believe, because absolutely nothing has been done to help facilitate RPing in wow since its inception. It’s a niche, I understand but I also understand economics; niche = premium pricing.
So for Dragonflight I have considered committing myself to one or the other, maybe both on a ‘main/alt’ basis. If you’re interested start fresh and come join my Undead only guild
If I was to ‘critique’ the developers at this point I would suggest to put a little more effort on enabling people to have more meaningful interactions with other players and provide a sanctuary from the 30sec attention span design of the wider wed. I think a lot of people would be happy to pay a higher price for a higher quality ‘social media’ and online gaming is the original ‘social media’ both literally and metaphorically.
If anyone else would like to chime in on this I would love to hear from you.