Red Flags in RP?

Yeah, huge red flag when that happens. Experienced it quite a bit, but since after BfA I have seen it less and less.

“Muffin Lover” title. I just can’t get over that, it’s worn by a very specific type of roleplayers who I find extremely annoying.

Weird characters hanging out in places where they just shouldn’t be at all, like giant growth Vrykul and that nerdy Eredar friendly girl next door (who loves butterflies and cute critters) visiting the Stormwind park. If they don’t have the common sense to understand why that’s wrong, I don’t think that I can expect that they’ll be reasonable in general.

People who treat WoW as a relationship/family simulator, just not my cup of tea and not something I’m interested to participate in.

People who behave as if they’re some sort of real character, saying things like “Slayy girl”, hitting me with repeated "bro"s, I just don’t feel like they’ve anything else to offer and it breaks my immersion.

Attention seekers, unlike above things which you can generally spot at first glance just from their appearance or TRP profile, these guys generally unexpectedly show their true colors. There are two types that come to mind, those who’ll start an IC conflict to then act a victim and seek out other players to white knight for them as an act of revenge - these are generally great manipulators and suddenly turn extremely powerful when their victim act doesn’t work out; and then there are those who do it OOC by telling the worst of their depressing IRL experiences to get series of “aww poor you” responses - I really do not need to know about any of this, just because we share a guild and spoke a few times doesn’t mean that I’m your friend who you should keep reminding that your dad used to beat you or that you’ve X medical condition.

Various OOC information stuffed into TRP profiles that really have nothing to do with RP and affect nothing. “Actually nice IRL”, “Anime lover”, “LGBTQ+ friendly”, “Approachable”, “New character”, “Ignores the usual” and so on. Most of these things you’d think are just something you’d expect from every average person, others really do not concern anyone and are entirely irrelevant. I guess that these are just some players who want to fit into X group, feel like it’s expected from them since so many others do it, or I don’t know what. This is a minor one but it makes me weary in advance, I’d rather we just focus on roleplay which is after all what we’re all here to do.

Generally I’m a very tolerant guy and will roleplay with virtually everyone, I simply despise outright ignoring other people who approach me but I’ll sometimes try to slip away or steer clear of some to avoid any sort of interaction.

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Hmmmm.

‘Ignores/Blocks ____’ statements in TRP, even when it’s regarding something I might actually agree with.
There’s things I might avoid, but something about making a big show of saying that you do reeks of self-importance.

People who start to behave as if a night of low activity is an insult to them and that I have purposefully left them with nothing to do. I’m not responsible for an inability to self-entertain if people are out or busy.

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If you’re ignoring someone or something, just ignore it!
People with inordinate titles most of which shouldn’t be there. “Mother - Daughter - Kind - Psycho - Murderous Bish - Cookie Lover”

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My Do’s and Don’t RP guide has a few which often are classed as Red Flags.
https://imgur.com/a/JXThdfQ

  • Spamming paragraph long emotes constantly usually is a case of ‘Main character syndrome’ on display, but often times, it is just people being creative.
  • Claim to own buildings, locations or sites. I’ve seen this a lot, where people have claimed to own buildings with deeds, or they claim that 'This is our land and our village and we will kill you for being here.
  • Always aim for the head/kill shots. Basically, treating everyone like NPCs and that they can just be killed instantly for your personal story.
  • Roleplay Hostile races in unsuitable locations. The exception is not the rule, and there are no blood elves in Stormwind.
  • Have a massive amount of titles, like Distantpeak said above.

And I’ll also add:
Lore ignoring. People who find certain aspects of the story unappealing and completely delete it from their roleplay, saying ‘It didn’t happen’ OOCly and making up their own stuff as canon.

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Oh god yea the huge red flag of something like “insane” in the title (not the in-game one, mind you).

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Budget Harley Quinns and often poorly put together.

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Description: She giggles alot because she is crazy and likes to kill.

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Reminds me of another red flag and that has to do with duelling. When it comes down to either emoting or rolls. When your opponent somehow dodges all your attacks in some backflip motion and when they -DO- get hit they either shrug it off, grin, laugh or giggle at the pain as if it doesn’t effect them no matter what.

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This sounds more like something annoying to deal with than a red flag, given how a red flag is a premonition that roleplay like this might happen, rather than the actual roleplay itself. I don’t think anyone but the writer of these type of characters would look at these moments and go ‘Ah, yes, this is fine.’

A red flag is seeing said character carrying several modern real life firearms with no fantasy flair, and the rest of an arsenal first glance that extends beyond the length of the TRP3 minimized window and rightfully assuming that this roleplay would follow it.

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Suppose you do have a point, just thought within my opinion it was considered a red flag with another player.

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Legit saw a Jinx in SW the other day.

I mean, like, fair play to them - they nailed the look and transmog, even had a rocket mount.
But, uhhhhhh… yeahno. Not RPing with that hah.

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Eyepatches.
Masks.
Neckercheifs.
Long hair.

Anything that covers the face really. What are they hiding? Hmm? what. are. they. hiding?

Most of these are probably already said:

Ignores x in the trp profiles.

Overly long history sections. If it’s to help the player remember ok, but know that I’m not reading the thing. It’s just not going to happen.

Anything that describes their characters breast size, or refers to how they move their hips. I’m not here to ERP.
Related would be people in gchat or discord who turn everything into a inuendo joke. They typically play characters they are just there to erp and nothing else.

People who feel the need to be clear they seperate OOC and IC… like… that’s like saying you’re proud of not going to prison. You’re meant to do that!

Giant growth pots. They aren’t neccesarily -bad-, indeed the recent undermine patch has added two nice items that allow a degree of much needed customisation… but sadly the idea is often ruined by the players that gravitate towards it. Tending to be power emoters, joke characters, players living out main character syndrome etc.

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yknow if i saw that in undermine i wouldnt bat an eye coz. honestly tracks with goblins. in stormwind? yeesh.

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It’s my sharingan you crouton.

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They were in Stromgarde not too long ago, I know who you mean. And yes, their transmog is 100% spot on. I was really, really impressed.

But yes, I am sure Undermine would be actually a better place to RP a character something like that, rather than be in Stormwind or Stromgarde.

Just not ripping the character right from the show and game.

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This i can find to be a potential red flag…

If its inspiration taken from in part by a character in some way, understandable, think we all have in some way at some point. A straight up rip from another piece of media? That RP aint worth it chief.

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I still get unhinged whispers from time to time, not so much now. That I am down right copying the Witcher in RP. In which they proved no further elaboration that I am RPing Geralt. Most of my art is referenced to the Witcher and that is it, nothing more and nothing less. They point to the character then point to the art before either blocking me or going silent ;-;

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  • Anything overtly suggestive towards NSFW, be it glances or art in TRP. Also pushing these themes in RP. Big nope.

  • Powergame’y or metagame’y behaviors. We’ve all came across the type who carries a solution to every problem, knows all kinds of magic or has a weapon for every purpose. Trying to do teamwork with this kind of character is like being a sidekick or audience - it gets boring really quickly. It doesn’t mean that I’m against people taking spotlight for a night, but when it’s more of a norm than exception.

  • Degradatory “jokes” or remarks over OOC chats - especially when unprovoked and it doesn’t sound like friendly banter. IC is fine to a certain limit, especially when it creates more RP. But in OOC chats, it often comes across as roleplayer being passive-aggressive.

And this. This is definitely one of those “vibe” things you’ll discover over time, but rarely figure out properly on a first meeting. It’s natural to agree with our character’s PoV sometimes, it’s natural to have preferences and ultimately every narrator is limited to their own acting skills. But it starts becoming unenjoyable when a narrator’s OOC views line up with their character’s agenda all the time, and they constantly justify their character’s choices OOC -or- they try to influence people’s views constantly to further their agenda. Even worse, if the other person criticizes your character both IC and OOC for anything that isn’t to their convenience.

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Walks with a sway of the hips, lips pouting, an alluring aura that draws you in…

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