That is the point already. You must struggle before rising up in the ladder.
Let me summarize my first week arena journey;
It was 4 AM or something, I created a group, a gnome monk applied he was 1500 rating I was zero, I reached beyond 1400 with him in an hour with 76℅ winrate. I didn’t intend to play with him further we said thanks to each other and said goodbyes, he also got alot of rating out of our short partnership.
Then I found a paladin healer, we pushed near Rival but failed when we were 1 match away from Rival, we stopped I tried with 2 other healers and went down on CR to 1670 or something. Next day that paladin whisped me and I could carry him to beyond Rival but I couldn’t because of lower starting CR, for some weird reason he removed me from battle net when I logged off probably thought that I was not a good fit to climb, I whisped him “Did you remove me without saying anything, what a weirdo, let me block you then, lol”. That was the end of our partnership with that Paladin.
I tried with 2 other healers, one of them got dced or used altf4 rightaway in the first match, probably ragequit because of rogues, other one left the group after 2 matches a resto druid. These dumb people need to learn communication, I also leave some healers but I say something before I leave and give them a chance to prove something first then say something like “Alright, apparently monk sucks I’ll leave here, good luck to you ” and leave after that…
At last, I found a good healer, we were both patient, we knew that we were just unlucky with our losses, we kept playing and climbed together. For now we stopped until next week gearing, we will reach 2100 together with our new gear after reset.
See? I’ve been through alot of things for that gear upgrade while all you do is clicking random bg queue button and eating potato chips during battle. It is not fair for random bg players to acquire equal items to us.