I typed this entire thing out at 4 a.m. and fell asleep at my keyboard before it was finished, decided to finish it anyway. It represents some thoughts I have had for a few months now and if you can’t be bothered to read it all there is a tl;dr at the bottom lol
This is a subject that I have been mulling over for several months now - and now is just the first time I think I am vocalizing my own thoughts on the subject matter, in a cacophony of thoughts thrown together in a single late night. There are very few places that I would get to throw this rant together, so why not on the forum, where anyone can read and anyone can scrutinize to their absolute heart’s content? Of course, all of this presented is merely my own opinion.
So I have been RPing in various communities since I was- what, ten, eleven years old? One such thing that was driven into my brain from a young age is the importance of RP - from things that made obvious sense such as being literate to more personal RP standards concerning the viability of one’s character in an RP setting and the supposed canonicity of said character - how out of place would they look in whichever setting that they took part in?
Now this was fine to my silly little kid brain, just because this is how I basically learned RP and is what I grew up doing. But as I’ve grown older and the people who stayed along with me as I jumped from community to community have grown older, I find that the RP I did with them - and other communities as I grew older - has grown stricter, but I’ve never really had words to say anything about it? It was more of a subconscious thing - that which I had noticed growing in the back of my mind but was never so disconnected that I felt that I had to say anything about it (despite various embarrassing dramas that happened in the group of people that I frequently RPed with over the course of eight years.)
but weirdly - coming to Argent Dawn in the wake of a pretty devastating and unexpected injury, during a slow year in college - I think I finally managed to put words to it.
I think it’s no secret that Argent Dawn is known for its quality control amidst several of its most prominent RP circles, It is nothing new and it is not something I think is ever going to change any time soon. And my first experience with my first character (not this one, who is used more prominently for my forum browsing than anything else really) really illustrated that to me in a pretty harsh demeanor - and funnily enough the conclusion that I drew from that first character was not this, rather it was the thought that I just didn’t like this kind of RP, no biggie. Try again elsewhere.
But in my current RP circle of friends, amongst trying again for the style of RP that I thought I didn’t enjoy, combined with nearly a decade of RP experience from when I was literally a young child to now as a new adult, I think the conclusion that I have since reached is I didn’t not like that style of RP - it’s that I am disenfranchised with overly strict RP standards and communities.
And even despite any of the obvious answers one might think of, I think the biggest reason why, and what I would consider to be one of the worst things someone can do as an RPer, is it just being boring. RP for me is purely for a fun giggle. I only started in WoW because I was homebound with a serious injury and wanted something to do in the meantime. And for that to be boring at the expense of being as lore-accurate as humanly possible just kills any interest in me - especially considering how much Blizzard disrespects, changes, modifies, and retcons their own fluff.
The best RP I’ve had is with characters who are off the wall, bizarre, and who don’t mind bending the lore. I think I would nine times out of ten prefer RPing with someone who bends the lore in order to be more interesting than someone who is exquisite in their lore adherence at the cost of being boring or generic. And that’s not to say that they can’t be interesting - I have done plenty of RP with individuals who are impressive with their dedication to lore and still been amazingly interesting and memorable - but typically the more adventurous, dangerous concepts tend to impress me more.
Idk. These are just my thoughts. Feel free to share your own viewpoint or critique any of my own, I’d love to hear any other’s thoughts.
TL; DR - I think that strict RP standards don’t help to create a more fun environment for RP, instead only leads to consistently uninteresting RP that makes it feel more like a job than a hobby.