I play a fantasy game for the fantasy world and story. I don’t play to have NPCs trauma dump on me and barely talk about the story and environment we’re in. I got enough of crap in IRL without having to now unconditionally listen to their problems. I’m here to escape and get enthralled into a fantasy world; so let’s stick to focusing on that.
More show not tell when it comes to ‘feelings’ because for the most part, we can understand the feelings without it being lectured to us. I don’t need to have an introduction to feelings to understand being held captive probably isn’t the most chipper of experiences.
A few times now I’ve had quests where the NPCs focused more on feelings, than on the damn lore. Like… I want some dialogue on this place, the people, the ruins, explain the history. Get me enthralled, I want to know.
Besides that, some of the dialogue on ‘feelings’ is just incredibly childish, unrealistic and almost written like a childs movie. It’s both bad writing and obnoxious. Please stop.
Edit:
Just to clarify; I’m not exclusively talking about Trauma dumping, but about how I feel there is too much focus on emotions, feelings, depression, anxiety, love, friendship, trauma etc. to the detriment to the story, and is quite often done in a way that just makes me roll my eyes so far back into my head they might just fall out. It needs to be toned down and refocused back on the fantasy universe we play in.