Something very similar happened to me in TBC. I did play in vanilla and i did some raiding back then.
But in TBC people were calling me S**t and you know i would bark back. The problem with players who tell other players they suck. Is that they are never constructive , they never help those players to get better.
Anyways i wanted to raid , and i was shadow priest at that time. I didn’t know anything about hit rating , i gemmed any old rubbish , i didn’t have the crafted set even though i was a tailor. I had mix of dungeon gear and pvp gear.
So yeh for about 3 months i just kept being told i suck , you suck. Then i decided enough was enough of pugging , it’s the puggers obviously they are just toxic. I registered and applied for a raiding guild. They repsonded hey thanks for the app , but your talents all wrong , your gear sucks are you even attuned ?
But they took me on board anyways because needed a shadow priest. So one of their priests told me to go on Ventrilo channel and basically went step by step guide how to play a Spriest , we went to a dummy. He explained what reps i needed , what gear would be achievable upgrades for me. He went through alot of talents explaining why they were good choices to have.
Literally in those 2 hours i had turned from a complete noob , to player who knew how to play the game. Litteraly , we went through rotations , i knew where to go. He told me about maxdps website and other sources.
This guy litteraly spent 2 hours of his free time to explain a noob like me how to get good. Because of him , my game experience just improved vastly. Like 1000% suddenly raiding was achievable for me. Getting the good loot wasn’t a thing i just stared at players in Shattrath.
The same guild were into pvp and started doing arenas with me , sure i sucked but i got better , i got arena points. It was awsome.
It’s sad to see players aren’t that helpful anymore in game. I mean even in my guild we got a player who is struggling to hit that +10 mark , he’s timing 9’s no problem but getting invited to 10’s or timing is a real struggle.
Guildies just tell him to try harder and pug more instead of hey i got a 10 key you can join mine and walk them through it on discord.
The worse response i see on these very forums and trade chat alot , when players are asking about something in the game. Their response is " It’s called google" /sigh