Trying to make sense of it(erp)

[Sylvare-argent-dawn (Sylvare)]

I’d say it counts, personally. No matter how you look at it ERP is only ever a factor if the 2 parties want it to be and it is also sexual in nature because unless there is some sexual gratification the two parties could come to agreement that they pretend ‘it’ happened and if that is not enough I would say there is a deeper reason then ‘its part of the RP’

Then again it wouldnt be the first time one party in a relationship is not getting something they like from that relationship and then seek it elsewhere, as relationship advice maybe try ERPing with your girl, the fact that it is acted out means there is some enjoyment in the act as goes with all things RP

Also consider no physical transgression was made and to liken it to sexting isnt exactly right either because the RP can be considered a factor from the character perspective

Your main priority for your relationship is to find out what she likes about it and see if you can supply it in the future, set up a private discord and go at it (not gonna tell you to do it ingame for obv reasons) and try to find out, walking up to her going “Y THO” will probably set the wrong tone

Who knows, maybe you’ll even get inspired for new ways to do it IRL and increase your lovelife through it

Edit: I dont condone it ingame but outside of it as long as there is mutual consent I couldnt care less

[Sipri-argent-dawn]

@Sylvare-argent-dawn

maybe try ERPing with your girl

This is actually a great advice. A good reason I can se to ERP is to try out something you fantasize about but don’t dare do IRL. Now this is only my assumption but I’m pretty sure many people out there are curious about homosexual intercourse for example and acting it out in a game I guess could satisfy some of that curiosity. Maybe she just wants to roleplay like, two strangers? Two different species? I don’t know how your relationship is but it can sometimes be hard to talk about what you like, so, for her maybe doing it in the game is a way to act out a fantasy she’s not secure enough to do/talk about IRL, but propose to do it together and ask what it is she wants

[Dråk-argent-dawn]

@Sipri-argent-dawn

Now this is only my assumption but I’m pretty sure many people out there are curious about homosexual intercourse for example and acting it out in a game

Thats how i got molested in the sw graveyard years back.