If someone makes a suggestion that conflicts with your negativity, they should just stop eh? Nice argument 
If outnumbered, starting a group to counter them is a 100% reasonable suggestion. It’s a multiplayer game after all. The op said he was outnumbered, so yeah, start a group. I find it helps. His other issues related to other player’s motivations… not under our control.
Do you regularly WPvP for the FUN of it? Alliance Defence Force WPvP community and/or guild needs you! Or see list of Horde and Alliance WPvP guilds and communities.