Yep, let’s hope they stop pretending to be self-depreciative in the near future. They’ve already taken on the mantle of leadership for each of their respective races, it doesn’t really sit well that they refuse to take on the associate title.
Even if it is just a symbolic gesture at this point, it would give them both more direct authority and I doubt either would have that many serious detractors who would be opposed to an elevation in status too.
I know in the case of the Sin’dorei, first Kael’thas refused to take the the title of King out of respect for his father.
Then at a later point his successor Lor’themar states,
“Never again shall a king reign in Silvermoon.”
Nevertheless, I still think it makes no sense why at this point he would continue to deny himself the title. My only suspicion he holds true to his word and this Spartan ideal, is that he still thinks there might be a chance he could pass the leadership role to someone else to unburden himself of the responsibility and go back frolicking around as a farstrider again.
It’s not like his closest compatriots and immediate rivals would object to him furthering his career prospects, …in fact to my understanding they’re actively trying to get him to crown himself king. He just lacks commitment to the role he’s already undertaking.
However, in the case of Thalyssra it’s more understandable and nuanced that she hasn’t immediately elevated herself, considering the events of 3rd Legion invasion are still relatively fresh timeline wise. To provide some justification, I’ve speculated some thoughts below on why this could be the case.
Firstly, we still don’t fully know how someone is elected to this position and generally speaking who has the authority to do so and if it can be done unilaterally in the event of an absence of leadership. Many key leaders of Suramar would have been lost during the events of the uprising. The process is unclear, if there is some sort of tradition to be followed, in order to legitimise and cement her claim officially.
Most likely the position was one appointed via Aszhara and proceeding Queens (& Kings/consorts?) of the Kaldorei Empire.
Also, it’s worth considering that Thlyssra might even despise the title or view it as redundant or even backward thinking to some extent. This is if in her point of view the title of Grand Magistrix is in some form associated to a posting that had responsibilities tied to direct control of the Nightwell, and until recently, their cultural reliance on it.
Considering the fact she has been actively demonstrated to be trying to remodel the direction of the entire Shal’dorei civilisation away from it’s dependency and traditional shortcomings, there could likely be a train of thought that would be inclined to distance herself from the position and a perception of stagnancy in order to help promote a new and more outward looking point of view.
The re-discovery of the Arcan’dor trees themselves and her hand in their cultivation alongside the PC (and Theryn) at the end of the Suramar questline are shown as a viable alternatives to sate their magical addiction. Her decision to let the Nightwell die would be another example of pro-active change and break from tradition.
That said, I’m sure that many Nightborne would still prefer to hold true to a lot of their traditions rather than forsake them, including the title of the one chosen to lead them.
With the level of political intrigue shown to be going on amongst the noble houses and those that survived the rebellion, there is a risk that a failure to secure the position for herself could invite a rival claimant who garner enough political influence and support to challenge her authority more openly the longer a power vacuum appears to remain.