Ello there!
It sounds like we, The Misfits, may tick some of the boxes you’re looking for! We’re a small, social-first guild that values a friendly and inclusive atmosphere above all else. We also already have Danish players, but as a guild, we communicate entirely in written English — no voice chat here. Many of our members also come from FFXIV (theres also a The Misfits FC there), so you’d definitely find people who understand that part!
We’re not just LGBTQ+ friendly — we also have players in the community, and creating a welcoming, safe space is very important to us. That said, we are very small at the moment and don’t do high-end content yet. Our short-to-midterm goal is to build one or two M+ teams and grow from there, with a focus on fun and support rather than competition.
If that still sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to check out our post and reach out! Just wanted to drop a message. 
Wishing you the best in finding your new home!
—Lumel