Triple coffee!!!
Itās hard. Both of mine left long ago but the secret is keep in touch but never interfere (unless itās something life-threatening). Both had to leave suddenly for different reasons but weāre closer now I think, many years later, than we ever were; eg I have a check-ups for a chronic illness every few months and they both take the day off work and come from opposite ends of the country to be at the appointment.
Itās a different relationship, one of equals rather than parent and children.
When I moved to Turin from the province (like, half an hour from Turin) my mother looked me in the eyes, hugged me and told me ālife is yours from now onā like if we wouldāve never seen each other again. I laughed and told her I was literally just 30 minutes away, but I guess itās hard for a parent. I do visit them often though!
i was movin 2 floors below :D. But its true after 2 months they moved out to the other side of milanā¦
I moved in the house behind my parentās oneā¦ at 37 (I have lived alone in the past though).
Training is pretty boring.
You canāt afford a house here even if youāve worked a full time job since 18.
The prices of everything are just ridiculous. I think most people rent but even that is more expensive. Iāll probably inherit this falling-to-pieces house, sell it and live in a teeny tiny apartment (which is fine) and pray I go deaf so I donāt have to deal with all the neighbouring noises.
Maybe in 20 years it will be better again.
My son only 31 years old , wants to move out soon , I do not accept this ! The terror of what if he can not be safe , if he will get the illness he is too far for me take care of him , I donāt do nothing no more without him if he wants to leave me this makes me want to die , it feel empty without him . I accept his wife , even though she is the Heathen , and gives to me the best gift of GrandSom , so now I accept . But she wants to leave too , and this makes me think the life says to me I am done with the pail , but
To young in this Internet , do not leave your parent too soon , they will be the HeartBreak ! Good children who move close back their parents , OK you are good , I live my mother since I am 0 years old and do not abandon her even now . It is best if the child remains with the parent as long as possible , for health . The cemetary closeby so you can visit your sister every holiday
Atleast its not far, it could been sail into unknown settlement in far reaches of other side of the world aswell
Good joke ^^
I saw a game on steam called Empire of the Undergrowth, something about managing an ant colony or some such. Anyway, it made me think of you @Souldefiler
I bet after all that training
Yes, Iām glad itās over, nothing really difficult or anything, but sitting all day on an uncomfortable chair listening to boring stuff I donāt even really need for my daily work is kind of tiring. And 45 minutes of driving afterwards didnāt help either.
Early bedtime tonight then?
I might have a nap later but I usually never go to bed much earlier than Iām used to, because it never works. Iām used to go to bed around midnight and fall asleep almost instantly, but when I go earlier than that, I canāt sleep until midnight anyway, so it defeats the whole point (and I get nervous because I canāt sleep right away like Iām used to).
Tomorrow Iāll work from home, so I can wake up around 7:30-8 and itās fine.
Who cares if I start working in my pyjamas, no one will know anyway.
You just described school.
Yeah but when you go to school you are like 30 years younger than I am right now.
I envy people who can nap!
I canāt
Either I canāt fall asleep in a timely fashion and whatever alarm I have set goes off before sleep comes OR I sleep for like 8 hours.
I chose the wrong word, itās not really a nap, because when I fall asleep during the day itās always a bad idea. I wake up even more tired and zombie-like than before, so I just lay in bed for a bit listening to relaxing sounds.
So itās not really a nap, itās a trap.
Iāll see myself out.