Full context for the Night Elven anger v. the Nightborne:
- Tyrande is actually a NATIVE of Suramar (keep that in mind)
- Upon her and the Quel’dorei’s arrival, they openly displayed non-commitance to the Nightborne’s plight, including the attacks on Starcaller Retreat and the Waning Crescent during the night, targeting civilians unaffiliated in their homes and a school of children. Nightborne, like their kin, are Nocturnal, which means these attacks were planned to legitimately get/kill anyone at home, at school, or their place of business at peak hours.
- Made it clear their main goal was to destroy the Nightwell, not provide relief (from World Quests).
- Actively said they would use the Rebellion as front-liners in order to preserve their own troops.
- Afterwards gave no aid except to say mean-naughty things to Thalyssra. Outright denied any offers of friendship or diplomacy because, and I quote, “Arcane Bad, Druid-Arcane Good.”
- Largely disenfranchised the Nightborne due to their ties to Azshara during the War of the Ancients, despite their active rebellion and having stopped second invasion single-handedly (see WotA trilogy).
- Despite similarily agreeing that they brought upon their own ruin and deposing their leader like some of the Shen’dralar, were denied any sort of kinship with the Kal’dorei.
I do wish OP all the best with the endeavour, but even IF she can overlook what the Kal’dorei have said about Suramar it’s going to be a MASSIVE uphill battle because, and I quote, “Arcane Bad, Druid-Arcane Good.” Bearing the mutations/corruptions the Nightwell provided physically is going to make it all the harder as a visual identifier.
I would recommend maybe looking at a few Illidari-themed guilds that invite other classes though. They’re generally more themed around outcasts, and may be an easier ‘in’ than a strict Kal’dorei guild.
Edit: Having read the rest of this thread, I have no idea how someone okay with burning the Financial and Political Poor (including the children) of their own people, including torture and the destruction of their actual soul so as to never rest among the grace of Elune, because they MIGHT have MAYBE been affiliated with the Rebellion is going to make the logical leap towards not being okay with doing about the same to Teldrassil.
What particularly confuses me is why she’s Anti-Thalyssra, because Thalyssra kept the government in-tact (including the pro-Elisande Aristocracy), continued the various ‘First’ positions in Government, made sure transitions of power, and allied with the Horde because, and I cannot stress this enough, “Arcane Bad, Druid-Magic Good,” rhetoric from Tyrande.
Even though the only person who -really- betrayed their people was Elisande in selling them out to the Legion, whom they previously violently ejected from the Temple of Elune (now the Tomb of Sargeras) for practicing Necromancy on the remains of their fallen people. Suramar was the testing ground for the Nathrezim’s experiments with the Plague of Undeath and Necromancy during the War of the Ancients.
While I still do wish you all the best, even with the most twisted grasp of history I can’t see why a Pro-Elisande-Loyalist who was down to burn kids in their school, backed by the Aristocracy, is mad enough about the Horde (who arguably did -slightly- less worse but by about 1mm) to defect to the people who went, “Lol watch those people burn under Fel Fire. Suramar suxx” instead of enjoying the perks of languishing with your VERY powerful associates or just going neutral and working against the Horde. It’s a leap in logic that I can’t follow no matter how far I suspend my disbelief. Best of luck.