You don’t get the FOMO item to have others respect you, you get the FOMO item because it is something you want before it is gone. It brings the one who got it some happiness.
FOMO is just a tool to engage people to do content they normally would not participate within.
I do understand that many feel that FOMO is about themselves. They see FOMO items as affecting themselves more important than how it affected another. Basically to boil it down: I didn’t/couldn’t do A, but I want the reward. Me not getting the reward is not fun for me, fun is important, so me getting the reward is important and fun.
Ignoring the fact that getting the FOMO item was fun for the other person, because it was FOMO. That is taken away.
To use your example, Olympian medals, not anyone can/could get them - for any reason. But the winners for sure deserved them. What you want, is that those medals to be molded to perfect replicas, and then given to everyone else. Making the medal as a symbol completely pointless and worthless.
Sure, many are happier, because now they got the medal. But how do you think the Olympian feels about it? Will that medal ever be the same, even if it is still in the trophy closet and by the pictures showing the win.
I would say you just took something of emotional worth from someone else forever, for no other reason than your own gain. Your ego and wants trumps the ego and wants of the other. You not seeing that is lack of empathy, simple as.
This is the culture crash happening. One side want to protect the value of others, the other just don’t see it as valuable (or does, but just wants) and don’t care about what was.
We know the ‘want’ side won. Please, just let us old guards at least do our soapbox grandstand. Even if what we valued are seen as pointless. As we are pointless. Nothing matters, but at least let us pretend till we are in the dirt. That is the most humane thing to do, let people be as happy they can be, in a world where nothing matter. Don’t work to take it away. Please.