Totally agree.
Caught 10 fish.
Grats. Gz. Well done hero!
I have abandoned guilds because of that
Totally agree.
Caught 10 fish.
Grats. Gz. Well done hero!
I have abandoned guilds because of that
I reckon it’d take them changing the way the guild roster is pulled to be done in the same way it is for communities, which comes with its own set of issues in terms of needing to refresh it constantly to see who’s actually online.
Along with the guild roster there’s also the question of just the regular ingame friendlist.
Depends on the person you’re saying “no” to as well. Some take it personal the first or second time you tell them you aren’t feeling it while others simply brush it off, leave it be for a few days and then ask again. Being a tank in a guild or community usually makes one a sought after commodity as well for content which doesn’t help the situation.
With regards to people joining guilds and then complaining when something social happens lol
Do you ask for hot food and return it straight away, asking why is this not cold, I want it cold ?
You could say the same for joining communities but with communities you appear fully offline, unlike with guilds due to how the status is pulled. Sometimes you don’t fee like being social, which should be alright even when joining a guild. Personally i decided to leave at least one alt out the guild i was in back in TBC and WotLK for that reason and only let a few people know about it.
YESSSSS OP!
+ Global Ignore/block function to avoid petty little angry people that /whisper stalk you with insults on any alt you hop on. So tired of those. Then can just /character befriend unknowingly too, so they can see when you’re online and you wont!
It’s perfectly alright to be anti-social now and again in your guild, I do it myself as I love my own company over almost anyone elses but my immediate families.
The problem lies in people not being able to say no, and I get it, trust me, but the guild doesn’t revolve around a single person and if people can’t get with the programme they shouldn’t join guilds. That’s a 100% you/them problem, sorry.
I put that bluntly, but I also mean it as neutral as possible, you know how words can be without emotion or sound behind them and I cba re-typing lol.
an offline mode ingame would be nice… I mean they done the job half no? By breaking /who for most people… maybe these people not shown know something we dont? O_O
Thats one helluva messed up guild.
I dont have problem with my guild, as it’s mostly a quiet one, sometimes they ask me to do dungeons or some rares, no prob.
But, my problem is eventhough i appear offline , my very needy friend in the app still knows im on and she needs me in classic tbc…bro, i dont like nothing about tbc classic, she knows it, but still spams my messenger that she knows im in the game??? I want to be maximum offline, not offline and showing where my char is
If that’s the case then it may be time to have a talk about it with said friend and evaluate if the friendship is worth being annoyed by your friend constantly asking, especially if she knows you have no interest.
So much this!! I dont always feel like being sociable - its my right to do that but its also something that social people cant get behind. I have a certain disability that makes it so hard for me to interact all of that time - I can some of the time but not all. Sometimes I nee.d to be alone - the fact that a guild wants me is wonderful, but sometimes I just cant?
You really could help me with some gold… 4 or 5 mill would do the trick
You really aint mature enough if you dont understand that the better solution is sometimes to not show online. My own family has this way of thinking if i say something about a subject its bad if i dont want to talk about it its also bad id rather not talk about it so i dont discuss it. This way no one gets the worse of it. Why would wanting to be offline so you dont have to reject people a bad “relationship” with your guildes . Maybe you care only about raiding and dont want to m+ after you finished getting upgrades from there. If you keep saying no people will just think you dont want to help them regardless of what you tell them ,why not just let me appear offline so he doesnt get sad i dont get forced to help and everyone is on their happy way.
Why would you not want to encourage a win-win scenario if possible? Otherwise someone loses ,either the guilide gets rejected after getting his hope high he has people for m+ or you get screwed
then either ignore them or tell them you’re taking some time off instead of hidding and snaking around
Well you know thats not always possible - some of us have guilt for whatever reason and we cant always brush it off no matter how hard we would want to. Some people exploit that, its a human thing and not totally their fault - but too many people are givers and not takers. I’m not saying its right or wrong but it is how it is
not false, but i see it as a wrong thing to do, you’re basically deceiving people you’re not there instead of being honest and telling them you’re not feeling like socializing or anything else in question.
But lots of people cant do that. I would feel bad if I let someone down for something as trivial as having dinner etc - its not anyones fault but just how it is and I know I’m not alone in this feeling
Edit: I feel like I’m stalking you Buka lol apologies
Idk I wouldnt really trust a person any longer if i knew they’re trying to hide from me.
is ok!
Sometimes though certain people wont or dont or cant take no for an answer so instead of being bastardly about it it would feel better just to not be seen…I get what youre saying though, it does seem deceitful…one more thing to worry over lol
What they have to do is make it so your bnet status also applies in whatever bnet game you’re playing. So they add the ‘offline’ option for bnet and you tick it. Then whatever game you go into: WoW, OW, HS, etc - you show as offline.