But as always you say nothing about anyone else yet you seem fit to carry your personal haterd of me into another thread .You disgust me with your bullying in threads yet you call me rude .
I try my best. Even though I donât understand a lot regarding the LGBTQ. For example, I donât really understand genderfluid or non-binary yet but Iâm working on it, or to be precise: My brain is working overtime to âtranslateâ everything so I can understand it.
(Editor Vulp here again: Holy cow, just how fast are you anyway? I barely pressed âreplyâ to send it and not a second later "has liked your message)
Simply place me on ignore then if you do not like my views as i will do so for you now and calling me a child whatever see your own actions with "get a life " comments.
Their core is complex.
The outer behavior is more similar and predictable than most people are comfortable to admit.
A lot of us can often improve by doing some honest self reflection. Very often people actually do the opposite of what they preach others should do.
A great example is the oxymoron sentence that goes by âintolerant to intoleranceâ
He hit you with a slap, and you hit back with a baseball bat, i dont think that is quite fair. Also, arent you supposed to be all about tolerance and stuff? âGet a lifeâ was a bad and unnecessary insult to you too.
While both of you have different opinions, dont need to go too far with insults, it certainly wont change the others mind.
Because he says the same in every thread about LQBT and calls us not normal for our feelings and how we are inside . How would you feel living in the wrong body sit there and think about that .
I am tired of the cheap low crass insults and putting up with comments that people like me are mentally insane and not normal . What is normal anyway who deems what to be normal ?
I just love for love no matter what .
Irrelevant to the point I was making, although its common for you to go off on a tangent.
I call people he/she by their biological sex which in most cases can be ascertained simply by looking at them, relying on my natural instincts when doing this has never been wrong. I also refer to trans people by he/she because theyâre looking to be seen as he/she and often make physical changes to take on the outer appearance of what the opposite sex looks like.
If I do this to a Non-binary person in the same way I am subject to abuse and lectures about how theyâre neither male or female and get spoken at about gender which even you state in this thread is a social construct. I even have some of them go as far as to say that theyâre not biologically male or female too (hence trying to muddy the waters). Some of them are also using various types of media and LGBT groups to indoctrinate easily impressionable people into seeing gender rather than biological sex.
I wasnât referring to sexual attraction, once again an irrelevant point. I will answer based on my sexuality though.
Iâm a gay male, so attracted to males. Luckily Iâve been in a relationship for several years which means Iâve not had to seek anything for a long time. If I know someone is straight, regardless of how attractive they are I wouldnât even so much as flirt with them, but once again I donât need to do that as I have what I need in my partner.
Iâm also not attracted to trans people, be it MtF or FtM. Iâm not interested in people who are identifying as something different to what I know they are biologically as it doesnât fit my type.
Genderfluid simply means that people can ââswitchââ between genders or even have multiple genders.
non-binary would be that doesnt fit into the definition of our binary system (basically two genders) so neither women or men. And here people can start to argue if it makes sense for them.
Not to mention, their opinions also does not JUST reflect on themselves but also to others. I mean, for example. Iâm a white guy(Bi but that doesnât matter contextually), anything bad other white guys like me do reflect bad onto me as well passively.
Even though I had nothing to do with it. It stereotypes and creates stigma around the idea that âthat type of person is not goodâ.
And yes, this happens. To everyone. I remember a time when rumors were spread in my school(When I was in school that is) about this one kid who was gay and how he was infectious and all these bad things.
As shameful as it is to admit, I let that affect me to a certain degree. Though I have since let go of that since he never did anything. POINT being, the behavior of one can reflect upon the many and everyone needs to keep this in mind. Especially when we are talking about larger communities
Nope, puting you on igno would be not the right solution. Neither solve the problem you have with me. (Because beside that you are annoying I dont really have a problem with you)
Also last time you were the one who wanted me to put on igno⌠so you can do it yourself.
Personally, i would just accept who i am and adapt to it (like i already did with my body that is far from ânormalâ), i can still freely do what i want. Whether i was male or female, it would have no impact for me.
Insults are certainly not needed, which i agree with. As for what we could consider normal, well the best way is to look at natural world and what happens in it.
Well no see, placing them on ignore isnât a bad thing. Thatâs just you actively avoiding further negative conflict, which is good cause it defuses the situation. The âbadâ part is the insults from both sides, no matter how small or petty they have been.
And you are acknowledging that it was bad and how it affected you. Thatâs a good thing
Now then,
So, if I may use an example Iâm familiar with to relate to this part. âswitchingâ genders or so, would that kind of being like me switching between my Warcraft toons? In a sense?
The problem with all these is that they are hard for others to perceive because they are something within ones personality and not some physical characteristic.
These terms have risen to prominence so fast in the last few years that one cannot help but wonder if all these people have always been like that and were unable to express themselves or if is all this just a huge fad (it does not help that some bad actors do their best to be cringe about it) that will run its course and then calm down.
What even are non binary options?
Do you mean like opening up the customisations so that both male and female models share the same pool of hair styles and stuff?
That is a fair request i suppose.
If that did happen i would want a toggle for it purely because i would never use them and so it would clutter up my screen lol
Also, this whole thread is a perfect example of why i stopped coming here.