In FFXIV it is actually bannable to make a deal of people being bad. You can’t even mention dps meters or you might honestly get suspended. Not only that, but since people have to run dungeons for the story, there is an understanding that most people follow (in my experience) that you wait for people. But yes, trash is easy and you generally pull it all in one go but it’s not punishing like in WoW. Not even comparable.