Well rating in this game really is dependant of a lot of things. What you are saying is true, in the end its just a reflection how you’ve been doing with what you were doing. At least that’s how I see it. How I’d like to optimally see it is just as a number. But I think my head won’t get around that.
In my situation, I am in the belief that i’m 2600 right now in 3s for the pure reason of not having a team to play with. Which is something other people have and that’s the most important thing in this game. Getting a team to play and practice with. I could be the best player on the world but in WoW you have to accept that you need 1-2 other people to have success with.
I don’t think people should really make their minds about rating. It’d make more sense to play for fun/practice and rating comes on it’s own. That’s why I dont like when low cr people try to teach others or just deflect when there is clear proof that their specc is viable (DK comes to mind)
Even on 2.8 in 2s I still like to lose to reflect the games and see how to win eventually and to make my actual mind how the matchup is. While it is nice to be 2.8, if I know that It’s because I got a lucky queue session or something along these lines, I dont really feel safe or good about rating. Because I always want to make sure that I can improve and consistently win, which comes by losing games and deflecting the games you lost.
The gear part is something unique in this xpac and a new problem due to it being attached to rating. However, it is definetely possible to reach 1600 or 1800 with 205 ilvl. And at this point you have already 220 ilvl gear which is more than enough to push to 2100. At this point it really all comes down to personal skill, class of course and having a stable team to play with.
When I created this ally Monk I went to 2400 with 203 ilvl when everyone was around 220 which was painful but It’s definetely doable.
I never been on lower rating really, but I believe that the key is to make similar friends and push and improve. Being held back at this rating can be caused by your socials AND your partner, but at some point you will be able to carry people the more you improve and learn and reflect and generally start to get better.
The social part is what is really keeping people back in this game and what is what I try to believe is also holding me back. So I try to talk from my experience and make it clear how important having friends actually is to get rating in this game.
Actually the only part why I like other games much more and don’t play much more since 3 weeks. I can’t force myself to make friends or run after people to play with me really. Considering the majority of people at high cr being really 2-faced and corrupted and I rather like to play with people, who I know I can trust can competitively learn and play with together.
The LFG System is really outdated for these kind of things tbh.