So lately I’ve made a lot of friends in WoW, i like them all, and since start of the summer I was managing to play with all of them, but their number kept growing and right now there’re too many of them, and even tho I still manage to spend time with them, there’s still a tiny issue - more particularly below.
But first a little note, in case of friends, I manage to play with them because they dont mind each other, we can all go and do a dungeon, or raid, or do achievements or what not, you get my point. and I can just not talk to some of them for say, a week, and we’re still friends, so its all great.
now about the issue itself! some of my friends are females. (Im male just to note.) and Im “more than friends” with 8 of them. you get what I mean…
and the issue is, all 8 of them need more attention than normal friends, and require me to spend the time with them almost on daily basis.
now at first I thought - its fine! I can just do things with few of them at the same time, like I do with my normal friends… boy I was wrong, they get jealous at each other when they’re together, and they always fight each other, and start drama. basically issues whenever they’re together, and worse of them all, they have issues with me later on too. I had to go offline few times and play with them 1 by 1 to avoid drama… and that’s not how I want things, I want to be online when Im online.
So, How should I manage to deal with this issue? I want to play with all my friends, without losing any of them. even if they’re “more than friends”.
Aren’t you finding being ‘more than friends’ with 8 people exhausting? Do the other 8 know about each other?
I guess this is your karma coming back to bite you on the bahookie
Be honest and tell them, I have 8 girls I consider “more than friends” and I want to spend more time with all of them. You want to be in that situation, let them decide for themselves if they want to be in that situation. Fair enough?
Well, when you say ‘more than friends’ what do you actually mean? I have no idea how you manage to juggle these relationships (whatever that is in this situation) without losing your mind