Can be asked the same about you? If people are such butterflies and sunshine in m+ then why do keep getting toxicity threads? Dont point the finger at me though. I cant be in absolutely every m+ run out there. Would be even surprised if people accuse of toxicity since like I said before. I dont say a word in dungeons anymore.
Never asked for any solution cause I dont see no problem. Bricked keys or people ragequiting is nothing more than “cost of doing business with pugs”. If I dont like said pug, I can just put my next key up on the table and look for a different one. Despite popular claims. There are still people who are competent at their jobs and the true art of craft for any keyholder is to…filter them out from the chaff at the signup sheet.
Your suggestion of " lets be friends! " is not worth the effort cause to begin with… I dont go into m+ to look for friends. Pugging for me is for odd cases when I cant run keys with guilds or discord contacts.