I won’t source those that don’t belong to me, because that would force someone else to step in who may or may not want to get involved within this childish discussion.
In my case, I can redirect you to this thread:
This is the start, when confronted, the guy (who is an officer in your community) goes on to claim he’s certain that it’s true. Ofc, all the small fries follow, including - look! - you:
Ironic that you’re actually part of them, yet seem not to remember to the point you had to ask for sources.
Note how I waited to call out this attitude in a serious way until the following discussion, where this attitude happened again;
Edit.
ERP is usually acknowledged as one of the worse things people ca do out here on the forums, so these unsubstantiated accuses are really bad slander. It’s also counterproductive to the self-proclaimed role of anti-ERPers when you accuse random people of being ERPers because they don’t think like you do.