Am I doing something wrong? Or have i missed something? These digsites have not moved from High Mountain.
NVM, this is the only zone that offers digsites for 2 weeks.
telarynâs deepdiving clothing mods, another victory for the penumbra brigade
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i am looking for cute gothic dresses to play dress up with, thatâs the end game for me
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is this a mod or existing game mogs?
in game item.
From the shop though.
Youâll meet the character who wears it if you do the ShB eight-man raid story
I knew i had one with that dress and my Lady D hat;
Different character, other goth dress from the shop;
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kinda need telaryn to reach stormblood so we can see how normal he is about yotsuyu
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Ah, a dress I would like them to put in the store.
Remind me to hop over to Omega sometime to bully everyone
I have to say it though⌠I get that some of the topics in pet peeve thread is not for everyone ( Lord knows I often donât engage with some stuff in here if it either doesnât appeal to me, doesnât interest me, or I simply know too little of it). But I do feel as though some of the dislike for it is getting a bit out of proportion.
Ahwell, câest la vie I suppose.
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level 80 raid tier for casters is your best bet
some people just need something to hate or they got nothing
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im starting to feel like im completely invisible to my friends and its not doing me wonders anymore
If youâre referring to the drama blog, it doesnât really merit any response in here â not everything needs to be replied to. The mutual fixation is really 
. I donât have the energy for an e-feud with an anonymous blog that types likes an anime villain.
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I think its good to just be mindful of the false sense of security online instant-interaction creates in the brain. I used to be very concerned over âdo they like me, maybe they just secretly hate meâ etc. anxieties but as Iâve gotten older theyâve kind of died down as Iâve became busier + I became less dependent upon the instant-communication since I myself could sometimes go a few days before responding or etc., not out of malice but purely because responding to everything everywhere 24/7 isâŚreally exhausting. The internet allows for expanded circles of friends/acquaintances but in a way multiplies the burden of everyone involved to keep them going as well.
Alternatively, might be worth just speaking your mind about it to them and expressing that you have a, hopefully irrational, anxiety about feeling a sense of isolation and abandonment. With luck people will just be really busy (I do not subscribe to âYou will always 100% make timeâ because it is genuinely impossible outside fringe cases).
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i probably will with some because it does feel like it isnt with most but a fewâŚidk. your right though and its why i have to remind myself ânever trust how you feel about your life after 9pm.â
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As a wise post once said:
if you think you hate everyone, eat.
if you think everyone hates you, sleep.
if you think you hate yourself, take a shower.
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Sometimes brain is just stupid, I had the same thoughts you have now during summer and all it turned out to be was just that, brain being stupid.
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Unironically an insanely useful piece of advice and Iâve had less issues since I started following it because a lot of my anxiety dwelling would be at 10pm-3am but now I just knock myself out to sleep or read until I fall asleep and it works like a charm.
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