Well the feeling that I pretend they dont matter most likley comes from me being 1 a sloppy writer 2 have seen that if you work for other types of experiences they do exist and a lot of the people complain about the community being dead already while a better one dose exist if one goes looking for it, ofc other peoples experiences matter but I dont have much sympathy for people complaining about things that they could find solutions for if they went looking for them instead of complaining, lets say someone complains about not being able to find a group as a rogue for a dungeon, they could A make their own group B go looking for a guild that is actually helpful to their members but it most likley wont be pushing as hard for parses and such, in those cases people need to decied if they want to push for efficient clears or put in some leg work them self.