Just started playing again after a long break , used RAF to recruit a friend.
Now whenever we are trying to do dungeons , she get’s votekicked by elitist jerks because of low damage.
Throwing damage meters at her while she doesn’t even know what that is.
You might fix gameplay issues with your new expansion , but if you do not fix this issue there won’t be any new players staying.
I suggest you that fix your votekicking mechanic so it can’t be abused.
I feel embarassed that i brought her into a game like this honestly , might as well join her in FFO like she planned
I understand your frustration, but here are 2 general tips on how to cope with this:
a) I have a feeling you are describing one event, and not something going on every single time. Don’t just run to the forums and cry - you will encounter morons everywhere you go, it’s just life. I’ve been playing since Vanilla, and even I got votekicked sometimes. It’s just how it is. Move on and don’t look back.
b) If your friend is really clueless about something, let other people know. It’s a multiplayer game, which means you can communicate with them. I would be much more grateful if people who don’t know mechanics, dungeons etc. would let me know with a simple sentence such as ‘Hi, I’m fairly new so pardon me if I’m going to make mistakes / low dps etc etc’.
Despite what you might see of replies here. It’s a pretty well known problem the game has had since forever.
As you can see, It’s really hard for people to accept we might actually have a problem Please go trough this list of X amounts of things first, To avoid our community’s immature trash behavior please. Before hurting our ego’s on the forums
We all know we have a problem. It’s taboo to talk about it.
2/3 dungeons actually , i’m on voice with her telling her what to do and what not to do.
I linked her several video’s on how to play her class in dungeons and / or beginners guide.
You can’t expect a new player in a new dungeon for the very first time to keep up with the pace steamrolling groups do.
I mentioned to them that she was new to the game.
They were being elitist jerk , simple as that
Vote to kick is okay to be there (maybe change it “Vote to leave” better than “kick”).
Now about the situation,it is very common for group disbands in keys when dps of one person is low.I wouldn’t be rude to your friend but i would see the damage meter and say “hmm” a little.
I was bullied(no joke) when i was playing my mage as new player a lot so i gave up at some point and i changed class.
So even if i understand you,trying to become more efficient in groups will make her feel a better player in the process.
Ah yes , Lilith because when you were new i’m sure the very first thing you did was stand still at a practice dummy with a damage meter to see if your rotation was good.
So then you go to a dungeon and you noticed that : oh wow , these mobs move and there is not one , but multiple !
As i mentioned below : 2/3 dungeons actually , i’m on voice with her telling her what to do and what not to do.
I linked her several video’s on how to play her class in dungeons and / or beginners guide.
You can’t expect a new player in a new dungeon for the very first time to keep up with the pace steamrolling groups do.
I mentioned to them that she was new to the game.
They were being elitist jerk , simple as that
If they feel they can say anything to me that they please, then it’s simple, I leave the group. Then they can go crying again why players leave, but I cab to stick around.
Please go trough this list of X amounts of things first, To avoid our community’s immature trash behavior please. Before hurting our ego’s on the forums 
like a new player should be expected to that for leveling dungeons.
