unfortunately the doctors have given the news that the cancer has spread to her other areas which also includes brain so she has probably few days left so we are bringing her home today from hospital so that whatever time she has left she could spend in the house that we have lived for the past 20 years or so .
i want to personally thanks each and everyone of you who gave their prayers or well wishes . i will never forget your generosity . even though i am stranger you people showed me love and empathy .
i am sorry for making a new thread as my previous one was closed due to non activity .
i am sorry for making another off topic thread .i promise this is last and i would not bug any of you again .
Im sorry for what you and her are going through. I lost my mum in 2020 and despite a fractured relationship i still feel the hole she left. Best wishes to you and your family
Never nice when loved ones are going through a tough time.
Just remember tough times build character and make a stronger person.
My mum went through the same thing a few years ago now.
I do still miss her on a regular basis, but at the same time if it didnt happen at the time it did i wouldnt of became the person i am now.
Which is vastly different to back then
As much as i loved her if she was still here i would of never progressed and would still be jobless and sitting in front a pc playing mmorpgs 12 hours a day.
Just wanted to ask how you are Naturegirl, and to nudge the topic before youâd like to write at some point but find it closed.
Yesterday I went to the hospital with my mum, Iâve been taking care of her. The doctor concluded further treatment would be pointless because of her age and general condition. Sheâs elderly, in that sense itâs expected and a great deal more natural than your situation with your mother. But still, all we can do now is wait for her to die and hope it wonât be too painful.
I regularly think of you and hope you are ok enough, as far as a situation like this allows for that. If you feel like writing things off your chest, I hope you feel free to do so. And if not, that is fine too obviously. If youâd prefer no further bumps, do say so Iâd fully understand.
Doctors have very much said same thing to us that she will not survive for much longer . She is responding very much less now .in a day she will respond maybe one or two times .she can no longer eat .she has to be fed through a tube little food and drink that her body is accepting .
One of the doctor had suggested plasma treatment but after doing that mom gained some concious two weeks ago but so did the pain .
Sometimes she tells me that she could see and feel the monsters out to get our family .over the course of time we inherited some enemies within our family circle .so even at this time she is more worried about rest of us instead of herself .
Before the operation she was in high spirits and was so well that one day before the operation she did all the house chore herself .after the operation on 10th day she started complaining that her taste had disappeared and she could not get taste of any food in her mouth . That is when things started to take turn for worse .
We have taken her to home now .it has been roughly a month now since we took her home . Atleast whatever she has left time in this world she will spend it with me and father till her time is over . She got blood transfusion yesterday as her blood level had decreased too much .
Thank you for asking and caring as it helps me alot to do my catharsis
Iâd fully understand.
. She is responding very much less now .in a day she will respond maybe one or two times .she can no longer eat .she has to be fed through a tube little food and drink that her body is accepting .
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