But you used the word smart. Being smart has nothing to do with not having kids. Even if you think that our world and society will be destroyed by climate change.
Having kids or not is neither smart or dumb, but just a decision you can make in the right time in your life (which may never be).
the one thing which would make me a good dad is the fact i’ve suffered for most my life been through literal hell and back.
i know what its like to be in the lowest place possible, i dont come across like it here but i am a great role model and teacher in real-life and i have the experience behind me to teach those life lessons which get neglected.
i will prob never have that chance to hand down the knowledge though, instead mr.tattoo drug drink abuser is on kid 30 with missus likes bad guys …
I just not like the word in that context, because some people who would make great parents will never be and a lot of people I’d rather see not having kids have.
But in general we agree anyway I guess.
I found a good wife, but we still don’t have kids because the society, especially work, isn’t really good for having kids here. While my parents had it “easier” in their life time, because my dad had a guaranteed job that could feed the family and so my mom could work only 50% until I was big enough to go to school.
This is far from the reality of modern families, where often both have to work fulltime (or more) and kindergartens and schools are putting you on waiting lists.
But I’m going to deep into society problems that should’ve been solved 30 years ago and still plague us in many areas of living.
Youre talking to someone that got upset his friends had kids and spend less time with him because of it He is a child himself. Also having imaginary dates doesn’t help.