When do jokes and banter become bullying and harassment?

Oh, the irony… I read the book and I thought it was dross, specifically aimed at white males with low self-esteem… hence the focus on the Columbine shooters… you however, thought it was brilliant.

Fair enough, I’m the same there. But like I said, using “autist” as an insult only helps encourage a negative connotation to the word which is extremely difficult to clean up.

You are, of course, entitled to your own view of things, but there are people out there - like myself - who do strongly disagree with it.

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What kind of pathetic nonsense is this?

When you stay online all day and do nothing but insult a person to try and cause them to have negative reactions.

otherwise you’re just being a pansy. Just ask them, “are u having some bants m8?” if they are intending to hurt you via insults JUST BLOCK / IGNORE THEM.

THIS IS NOT A DIFFICULT CONCEPT.

THE IGNORE OPTION IS THERE FOR A REASON.

You bloody lemon.

Less Caps Lock, wee man.

Everything you’ve countered @Roxxanne is right but Roxxanne is right too. The very sad fact is that there are some parents who dont seem to care at all what their children are doing and cant be arsed to care for them at all, let alone teach them how to be with people.

There are very young kids with access to the net and they’re influenced by the behaviours that they see, this in turn creates the problems.

Sometimes I truly think that you (and I dont mean you personally) should have a licence to be able to have children

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the American idea i think is ‘anything the ‘victim’ feels uncomfortable with’ as with assault which seems to me to be too much of a grey area…
it doesn’t become harassment imo until you ask the person to stop, here they just made a simple wolf whistle an act of sexual harassment…i don’t particularly like it myself but it’s a pretty harmless thing in itself whereas harassment is persistence…
not sure i want to live in a word where you feel you can’t tell someone they look great today without fear of them taking it the wrong way because i’m pretty sure that’s where it’s going…
i’m not saying it’s ok to be a poophead but i really believe we need to stop pandering to the plague of sjwism right now…
i also read that it’s now longer appropriate to call a them gingerbread men…for pitys sake, what do we go into the bakers and ask for a non gender specific gingerbread person?
are we really that isolated and intolerant now?..:frowning:

This isn’t a thread about being told you look great… precisely the opposite.

and it isn’t a thread about picking out parts that suit your needs either…
try reading the whole thing and you might understand why judging a book by its cover is often the problem…-.-
it’s always ignorance that causes intolerance and misunderstanding…

I read the whole thing… I thought the conflation of a positive with harassment, was a tiny bit disingenuous on a thread about abuse.

I really don’t care what a ginger biscuit is called, provided the word ‘ginger’ is included… call 'em Ginger Baby’s, then bite the head off first…while grinning wolfishly at the purveyor of biscuity comestibles, having popped a blood capsule.
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i doubt you even read or understood the thread title…-.-

It’s a long thread… if you had read more of it, you would realise I do… the use of the terms ‘conflation’, ‘disingenuous’, ‘purveyor’ and ‘comestible’ may have confused you?

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I’m 100% sure you’re the one who didn’t understand it cause you simply didn’t read my post, blaming it on being too long and claiming it hence becomes “Unable to be analyzed”…

I guess this really is the genereation of “One sentence, no paragraphs - FFS”.

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I don’t see how we are dismissing their problems, on the contrary, were saying: Everyone has problems, the key to coping in this world is to take responsibility and do something about it.

Whats the alternative, never giving any advice?

I wasn’t referring to the book specifically, I was referring to Peterson and all the work he’s doing. I though that was clear but based on your reading comprehension of Peterson work I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that your struggling to keep up.

It becomes bullying and harassment when you let it be.
“ThIs CoMmUnItY Is TOxIc”
No, you are fragile, after 10+ years world of warcraft i’ve had it all.
Death threats, insults, ‘bullying’… just learn to accept that some people are
arses and move on, jeeez.

I comprehend just fine… disagreeing with your hero, is not the same as a lack of comprehension of his pretty basic Paleolithic schtick… be a ‘real man’…women like ‘real men’… other men respect ‘real men’… you are a loser, if you are not a ‘real man’… want the girls, the money, the flash car and big house, then be a ‘real man’
Buy the JP Guide to being a real man ‘Top Lobster’… watch my videos…All of my videos, so I get better advertising payments… Buy tickets to my lecture tours…Other motivational materials are available, we take PayPal…yadda, yadda, yadda.

It really is not new or original, and it obsesses on a supremacist rat race mentality… always look over your shoulder and compare yourself enviously/contemptuously to everybody else… A 1980s reboot, but with smaller hair and shoulderpads.

It’s purely designed to make JP rich, from materials appealing to your raging insecurity… he’s a psychologist, remember.
It’s just another spin on ‘send my Apostolic church money, Jesus wants me to have a new Lear jet.’

Clearly you don’t comprehend because nothing in your tirade there are his views.
It’s a theme with you though since you’re also missing the point of other perfectly clear posts in this thread.

You take everything out context so you can have a little tantrum about it.

I’d advise you get that looked at. Jordan Peterson comes highly recommended :wink:

Except JP gave up both his teaching and private consultation, to become a celebrity psychologist…who is very popular with the AltRight, because his message appeals directly to the wallet of insecure males, who want to be told they are the rightful masters… basically it pays better… and he claims he holds his nose, as he takes their money.

Given the fact it sounds as though one of JP’s supporters on this thread (who is also fond of conspiracy theories) was sectioned, until he was judged not to be a threat to himself or the community… or ‘assessed for months’… depending on the way it is presented, that is not a ringing endorsement of your view of who needs to be ‘looked at’, Ysbeer.
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The fact “you don’t see it” doesn’t mean the other party won’t feel that way and won’t take your advice the wrong way.

Your “not seeing it” is because you are considering the advice in a rational way, but people are often not rational, especially when they are in some form of distress. Assuming they would react rationally can fail spectacularly, which is very unfortunate but something to take into account.

What I said is to be careful when giving the advice instead of assuming the same advice works the same on different people in different situations. How you translate this to “never give advice” I honestly don’t know.