Simple intro here: i have a full time job and play the game casually, in MoP i used to play more as i had less responsibilities. I enjoy wow for it’s cooperative RPG content and casual pvp scenarios. I utterly despise the rush attitude of mythic+ and the “do or die” attitude of high rated pvp or heroic/mythic raids.
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This is what is happening now in BFA. I want to do random battlegrounds, i recently leveled to 120 so my gear after a few weeks is around 370.
When i enter a bg, i find that it is full of 410+ gladiators that are farming “scrubs” in random bgs. Yeah, these people have no interest in competing doing rated content, they just go there - get the gear, an then pwn casuals in random bgs. That is what get them off.
It’s the same as twinking but at endgame: you go to a bracket with lower geared people so you can destroy them without effort. That is their idea of fun.
I had friends during legion that enjoyed the casual pvp random bgs offered (due to stat templates), same as me. They could log in and play a few hours, enjoying some bgs.
Currently if you want to have any chance in random bgs, you better do mythic+ or raiding or whatever carry gets you 400+ ilevel. Because these elitists will come to the lower unrated pvp, and unleash all their no lifed fury on you.
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The other part this applies is on mythic 0s and normal raids, basically any content that isn’t applied through the group finder. When you enter here as a casual player, you’ll find the exactly same toxicity. People will take their addons to measure your performance as if you were competing for some silly e-sport award, and not just playing a game in your downtime… Then say “vote tick”. And people will kick you, “you’re bad”. Epic troll, and waste of your 30m+ time. “HAHAHA THAT NOOB GOT SERVED!!”.
Sometimes without reason, because they are just a few guild buddies that said
“hey bro i’m bored, how about we organise a normal raid and show the scrubs who is boss??” They aren’t there for gear, or the encounter. Their whole purpose is to troll, annoy, and waste the time of casual players who are low geared.
This elitist attitude is what makes the game toxic for casuals, and what is making many people quit. It isn’t worth to log in, get in the queue and waste 30mins waiting just to get kicked or griefed by someone who is overgeared, but gets off killing or griefing you.
As i said, i’m done with the game because it doesn’t offer a way for casuals to compete in their own content bracket, due to overgeared jerks coming down to annoy you. The only way to compete at that casual bracket is to stop being casual, and grind like a hardcore. I know people who have quit because they don’t want to grind to ilevel 400 before they can have fun in casual content.
I managed to get one character to near 380 due to luck with a world boss, and is still the same thing - i twould take me like a month or more to reach a level where i am not at the mercy of some overgeared jerks.
So i am leaving, i don’t want a game when i will always be at the mercy and disadvantage of elitists that get off making other players suffer. This is why MMORPGs are dropping in favor of games that don’t need you to spend 300+ hours to be at a modest level of equality to the other players. I want a game i can have fun and is not a second job.
In WoW, because of the attitude of many players, you need to be 24/7 grinding to not be mistreated or berated as a filthy casual who has “welfare gear”. Well, enjoy your endless grind and griefing noobs - WoW will end soon enough with parasites that draining it’s newblood.