Bringing The Letter into discussion and perpetrating harmful stereotypes is absolutely the wrong thing to do, and I called them out on that.
One of Wikipediaâs guidelines that influenced me in the past, and thatâs applicable to more than just editing Wikipedia, is titled thus: âAssume good faithâ.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Assume_good_faith
I start with the assumption that people here arenât trying to intentionally destroy each otherâs lives. (There are people in the world who actively are trying to destroy the lives of whole social groups, in the misguided belief that theyâre doing it for the greater good, but I donât believe any of them are present on this forum. The prevailing opinions on this forum are pretty clear to me, and I like most of them.)
Unfortunately, our first interactions with a given person tend to color our later impressions of them. Itâs not anyoneâs fault; itâs how weâre wired as a species, and something for which we have to consciously correct. If you and someone else started on a bad note, then chances are that the disagreements will continue to escalate, with you finding more and more reasons to hate each other and see an ulterior motive behind The Enemyâs every action.
Iâm not saying they are prejudiced against you because of the thread I know nothing about. Iâm not in a position to judge. But I donât think they called you out for being proud of your country. Thereâs nothing wrong with that. I respect people who genuinely want to help their country get famous for the good things about it, and improve on the bad.
Their issue, rather, â as I perceive it â was about calling me out, and about jumping to conclusions about the source of my beliefs without seeing the whole life story behind them. And in that, I think they committed a similar error: they acted overzealous, and jumped to conclusions, believing that anyone who takes an issue with someone like me must be a supporter of Fire Nation leadership.
Dividing the world into black and white is also our tendency as a species for which we have to correct. Putting labels on people we disagree with is easy. Actually understanding where theyâre coming from, even if you end up still disagreeing with them in the end, is harder.