Personally, they also struggle with being unapproachable.
I’ve alluded to it in a previous post, but even in hubs, they’re all gathered in impenetrable huddles, speaking nothing but [Thalassian]. Although I understand it may be partly due to IC xenophobia, it just doesn’t feel great when you approach group after group, only to be blanked while they continue to chat away in their native tongue. I genuinely get the impression that they don’t want to roleplay with those that aren’t blood elves. I approach and interact with everyone, but elves are the only ones that consistently ignore my character’s existence, no matter how hard I try. After all these years, I’ve barely had any memorable encounters with them.
It’s the same in campaigns, too. When a non-belf guild is placed into a belf-heavy group, they’re often completely left behind. It happened to me twice- the belf commander and his officers refused to speak anything other than Thalassian, which often excluded our trolls from the evening’s activities.
I don’t play a blood elf, so I admittedly know little about what actually goes on inside the community. However, things just feel so unwelcoming and closed-off as an outsider that I’ve never felt inclined to give blood elf roleplay a serious attempt!