Hi Mallaes.
If you are looking for elf inspired guilds I will give you a good list of both guilds, events and information.
My recommendation is to join some of the public elf events to brows around. Take time to rp with many different characters and guilds. Feel around ask both ic and ooc questions. It is not hard to find a guild but its harder to find an active guild who can provide a lot of rp when not only DM events and who will not fall apart within a year.
Take your time, enjoy yourself and interact. Be PICKY 'smile.
Best of luck and hope you find something fitting for both of you.
Elune`adore.