Like, I’m not going to go tinfoil hat over it. But as said I genuinely do feel bad when in transpires I might have done something wrong that other people may have been hurt by, but in this case there was nothing there to tell me how to reform or what I did. It was the equivalent of a parent angrily yelling at a child “don’t do that” and not clarifying what the behaviour was.
Now I don’t run forums, but I do run and manage classes and groups at my workplace and a key ingredient in making sure people abide by the agreed rules is making sure they’re visible and that if someone violates ones, you make it clear which they’ve violated and why that is so they can reform their behaviour.
The reply was essentially “you’re wrong, good day”. The wording of it was pretty much suggesting I couldn’t see what I did being wrong as being my issue.
You know how some people post “look it up, I not going to spell it out for you?” When asked for evidence? It felt like that.
I never got an e-mail containing the post.
The post and its thread were deleted.
The reason was “It’s inappropriate”.
The post hadn’t been reported enough to be buried.
I am not the Shadowy leader of the FF Illuminati, I am more like the wizened old shaman, who holds forth “Gather around the brazier children, and I will tell you a tale, Of Wasps, of Badger Assassins, of Unfortunate old men with wigs, of cyborgs and sinfulness, Pride and popcorn, and why you cannot trust Cheese, nor it’s very motives, oh no…But first, I shall play you the song of my people”
The strains of “This Corrosion” by Sisters of Mercy waft across the apocalyptic land…
I honestly ain’t seen folks being nasty to each other there, Perhaps I am a calming influence?
But yes, you still have me on Discord I believe Leaf, so you can stay in touch that way if you like.
I’m sorry to see that u were banned from FF leaf, i wasnt aware of that. I dont see any reason for you to leaf forums though, its just a discord server with mostly silly topics. I never had any issues with you at least, just wanted you to know that.
A good friend once told me that someone from this forum was saying bad stuff about me, I made an idiot of myself telling them off for it.
Turned out friend had lied to try and keep me from being friendly with them… I still don’t know why to this day.
I provided proof that the friend was lying, as they admitted it in discord text chat… the people involved were happy to bash me, but when I went and apologized and supplied proof they said nothing… so yeah I would steer clear of that discord too.
An 18 month friendship was destroyed over it, and I won’t be making that mistake again. Forums and friendships can be a disaster - and as my real life already has so much stress in it I don’t need any more.