To be fair there is nothing wrong with asking do you need, it’s an aspect of an MMO game to share loot between eachother.
What is wrong however is not being polite and being stingy when you’re denied the loot.
For whatever reason, the person that got the item can do whatever they want with it, if someone whispered them and they gave the item it’s okay, if they didn’t it’s also okay even if they disenchanted it for gold it’s still okay.
@OP and some posters here :-
Toxic is a word that’s has been losing it’s meaning for so long now, you can’t just throw the word toxic at whatever behavior you dislike.
People not trading are not toxic.
The OP complaining about people not trading is NOT toxic.
The OP raging and leaving and if they said some nasty words then they are indeed toxic.
Let’s not overuse a word to further our agenda, it’s a social game not a war between other players play and have fun, live and let live