You didn’t misread the situation at all.
And for this you’re going to be absolutely flogged by several members of the forum.
And just in case you think it’s over: The new expansion starts out with a male war hero suddenly made war-incompetent, but then carried by an insubordinate woman who gets away with it anyway, a (so far) weak son trying to find his place in the world while being softly spoken, and the main villain is an all-powerful woman. And of course the powerful revolutionary in one of the new zones is a daughter who’s right about everything, while the other features you backing a woman who invades a Zul’Aman, them of course being evil and led by a male.
Oh and he has a daughter. I haven’t played through it yet, but how much do you want to bet she takes over?
It’s absolutely still going at full tilt.
No you haven’t. This has been the case in certain genres and not in others where it’s the complete opposite, but there’s no huge influx of men coming into women’s spaces and their favourite stories and completely changing them - and if they did you’d rightly tell them to buzz off.
This is Warcraft. Women are most certainly welcome, but at its core it’s a WAR GAME. You know, the traditional domain of men. Don’t be surprised if a war game is full of hairy sweaty dudes killing hairy sweaty dudes, and please for the love of God don’t raise a big stink about it. Let people have their fun and stop trying to change everything into something it was never meant to be.