ITT: How to cause infighting among people fighting for LGBTQ+ issues: femboys.
hot (but might be actually a cold take lol):
Whether a character is done in poor taste or badly written does not matter when it comes to a LGBTQ+ character, as that can be for many reasons - the player is questioning themselves and trying to make sense of gender expressions, the player struggles with English or in general expressing through emotes/speech, the player simply has a different idea of the gender expressions (but not necessarily wrong).
However, what does matter is when it’s vulgar (as per ToS), or… ERP bait. Skimpy mogs are part of the game, like it or not, so imo describing high heel boots and the like are not the end of the world yet (since also, many artworks of WoW characters wear such garments). When their roleplay becomes very sexually charged beyond basic descriptions (including TRP), it becomes problematic instead.
I think we should use caution at immediately labelling someone as a fetishist - perhaps try to guide and educate instead if they’re actually doing it wrong (such as calling something androgynous while not being that, however an effeminate man can border androgyny).
When it’s clear that they’re nothing else but an ERPer, then sure, burn the jade witches on a metaphorical stake. Perhaps I’m a little naive since ERPers are so commonplace in Stormwind, but having thought about several instances where I’ve met similar characters in RP, I’ve started wondering whether their depiction was just bogged down by other reasons.
Then again, I don’t think I’ve met this particular character before and the description is a little questionable (why mention Taylor Swift’s body negatively?), so maybe people know the person is an ERPer or something else; however I disagree with Obilot’s post calling for a stop on these characters. Don’t paint everyone with the same brush, you’re not really acting better than homophobes et al.
(However, this current argument is just stupid and distracts from the main topic, instead only inflaming people’s emotions while they’re still agreeing with the overall message.)